I grew up in church. In fact, I grew up singing in a choir through every year of my young life and I have continued as an adult. One of the gifts that I can give of myself is singing and my commitment to being a good worship leader. I’m duty led to be in church. On our drive into church on typical Sunday mornings, we see lots of people who are not so led.
On the rare Sundays that we are not in church, I find myself watching people. Why isn’t’ the jogging man showered and walking down the aisle to find a seat before church service starts? Why isn’t the young woman making her way to church where she ..should be dropping her children off at their Sunday School classes and going to her own? Why isn’t the ‘mature’ couple speeding around in their convertible speeding to church to meet other couples in an adult Sunday School class before worshiping in church service?
I suppose the belief in heaven and hell has diminished. The belief in faith has too. They’ve obviously never depended on their faith to get them through anything.
The day
In more recent Sundays out, I have noticed more and more people are making Sundays:
- Yard work day
- Movie day
- Sit at the Starbucks in sweatpants day
- Eat brunch out day
- Grocery shopping day
- Anything besides church day.
The Sundayisms go on.
- It’s the only day ‘I’ have.
- I work all week and cart the kids around on Saturday. Sunday is ‘my’ day.
- It’s the only day I can catch up on laundry or housework.
Sorry if I sound preachy but that just isn’t right. Sunday is God’s day.
The decline
Attendance, participation and contributing to churches is declining for every denomination.
Weirdness, violence and downright spitefulness happens all over cities and towns where no one every imagined it would.
Correlation? Hmmmm.
We live in south Charlotte in a usually quiet neighborhood. 2 weeks before Easter, a terrible act of violence happened just 3 houses down from us.
The hope
That’s frightening to me because I expect to be safe when I need to walk my dog at midnight or 6 am.
The world worries me because it seems that the people who didn’t grow up caring about people are gaining on the group that did and it apparently is a trend – not an anomaly.
To counteract this trend, we need to do random acts of kindness, keep the faith and hope our group stays larger than their group.